A fast way to find out is to go through his messages and call log on his phone.If you can't do it because his phone is locked then leave your phone at home and make up an excuse to have to use his when you are both out somewhere. Tinder is a great one to test because it matches within proximity. Women whom he says he went to school with are strangers that he has been talking dirty to It seems you already have your answer that something untoward is happening.Online dating websites offer opportunities for men to connect with other men and women.Dating sites are portable, and men can access the database from any computer with an Internet connection.He was thoughtful, helpful, always remembered anniversaries, and always had something special planned. I don't want my kids to grow up in a broken family, and I am certain I don't want to remarry or have any other men in my life.
I did note the website name and his login info, as it was conveniently in the alert on his phone, and put that information in the notepad of my phone for future reference. First, let me say that I am terribly sorry----------- that is really stinky!! but I'm thinking maybe you could approach him about your marriage. but I think some emergency marriage repair action is in order.
However, if he is using a fake name, you may not be able to see any information about what social media he belongs to, unless, by chance, you happen to know what his social media alias is.
You can check but perhaps he is just speaking to friends.
And when I finally decided a couple of days later that I needed to go through the site and find out the extent of his betrayal, I found that he had changed some things to tone down what he had done. He is seeing a psychiatrist and telling her his life story so that's more a shoulder to whine and cry on than someone who will hold him accountable for what he did.
So my husband just received an alert on his phone that his new account at some dating site has been set up.