There is a reason God wanted Eve for Adam, and he says it right in the beginning of our manual for life. By design men will at some point need help and support, and women will want to be a help meet.This is fabulous in marriage and dangerous in casual relationships.Of course, the support goes both ways, only furthering my point that for Christ’s sake, we do need each other in one capacity or another.
I know, because as a Christian woman, I recorded in my memoir how I felt tortured and frustrated about being single; tired of married Christians telling me to be happy in my singleness and be married to God.
And, I was tired of single leadership pretending that they were completely fulfilled.
There is nothing wrong with having a desire for a beautiful relationship that results in marriage.
” “It’s great, but it’s not for you, unless you’re ‘burning’…then get married! The unmarried to strive to be sexually pure and chaste—but then so are married folks.
Sadly, sexuality is often reduced to a definition along these lines, but it is crucial to have a fuller understanding of it while also being honest that we are embodied souls.