But then all of a sudden, a red flag pops up that makes you reconsider the entire thing. That depends on how serious a red flag it really is. That kind of minor disagreement isn't what I'm talking about, since it just amounts to a small thing you may not have in common.But there are a few more serious red flags you should never ignore, because they tell you a lot about the dude you're with. This person doesn't really see you as —you're a projection of some perfect idea they have in their head, and anytime you shatter those expectations by being a normal, flawed, breathing human being, they're impossible to console.Oh yeah, and someone being that obsessed with you is CREEPY.So if you want to save yourself time, heartbreak, and energy, and have a helpful checklist to refer to that will help you find your significant other that much faster, read on. You might even see some of your own behaviours in this list.Here are twenty red flags to watch out for in your intimate relationships.
Or maybe they are ashamed of their friends or family, another possible red flag.
Picture this: You're getting to know a guy who seems like the total package.
He's brilliant and witty and has a body like a Hemsworth.
Without knowing what to look for, you could be wasting months (or years) of your dating life with the wrong partner.
Having gone through many lacklustre relationships and knowingly spent years of my life in ill-fitting pairings, this is a list that I wish I had been able to read when I was a teenager.